Kids’ birthday parties are so fun… who doesn’t love cake, party decorations, and having fun with friends? Since Big has been attending preschool a few times a week, we have been invited to more birthday parties, which Big loves! But going to all these parties is really starting to add up.
Since June, we have been invited to at least 5 parties for friends we have met within the last few years, we also have family and family friend parties coming up too. I know this doesn’t seem like a lot, but I have seen the future of birthday parties to come. One of my best friends, Lisa, has two boys a few years older than Big and a tween daughter, I remember her telling me all about the kid’s parties she has been attending almost every weekend, since the kids started school.
The biggest thing is to set a budget whatever you are comfortable with. I decided to set a limit of $20.00 all in, for the present, card, and gift wrap (sales tax included in my limit). So with 5 parties coming up that is already $100.00. How do you attend all of these parties, still give nice gifts, and not go broke? Here are some things I am trying to keep birthday gift spending in check.
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7 Ways to Save on Kids’ Birthday Gifts
No Gift: Easiest way to save money is not to bring a gift. If someone lists “No Gifts Please” on their invitation, listen and do not bring a gift. We will still make a card at home. Big has fun decorating cards for his friends. I am a rule follower at heart, so if you say no gift, no gift it is. I do not feel bad about not bringing one, if that is what is listed on the invite and neither should you. Or if it is not in your budget to get a gift and that is fine too, make a card and invite your friend for a later play-date.
Reuse and Recycle
I know I am not the only one that saves gift bags, tissue paper and sometimes even wrapping paper. As long as the bag or wrapping paper are in good condition after the first opening, we keep it. This can be a difficult task with a preschooler and toddler. I don’t stop them from ripping packages open with glee, but sometimes they surprise me and are gentle and I can still use the tissue and wrapping paper. I like reusing, it keeps these items out of the landfill for a little longer and saves me some money. So it is a win-win. I still have gift bags from my baby shower for Big, he is now 3.5 years old.
DIY Gift Wrap
If you are like me you have a ton of scrapbook paper, stamps, punches, and other embellishments laying around. I don’t have a lot of time to scrapbook now-a-days, but the paper and stamps have come in handy to decorate bags I found at the dollar store. Lately, the dollar store in my area has two bags for a $1.00 so that is a pretty good deal. Or you can check out this great deal on plain gift bags. I have also made some gift tags that I will be using on all kid presents from now on.
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Stock up on Add-Ons
Stock up on fun little things that can be great gift add-ons. Target’s Dollar Spot is my favorite place to look for these items. You can get a lot of bang for your buck. I also think these items have a good cost to quality. I also love that lately these items are education or art related. These items can be used on trips and in restaurants to keep the kiddos busy too.
If you know you have birthdays coming up and you find some great items on sale, it’s a good idea to stock up, if you can. Since Big has a December birthday and Little’s birthday is in January, I find that it is easier for me to shop for some of their birthday presents during the summer and early fall. I can usually find some great deals. I have a box in our guest room that I save items for my boys and others we can give throughout the year to friends. If you have favorite stores to buy kid gifts, sign up for their e-mail lists so you can get extra coupons. I need to have my friend Lisa, write a guest post for me on how she finds deals, she is my go-to-gal when I have a question about coupons and deals.
Break Up Multiple Items
Buying items that can be split up is one of my favorite ways to save some money. I have found some awesome book sets that was able to turn into 3 different gifts. For example, I bought a box of 6 books, I think I paid $24.99+ tax for the box set at Costco. Let’s say I paid $28.00 total split 3 ways that is $9.33 per gift, so I would still have some room in the budget to add something else. Recently, Big went to a party for twins, so the budget for this party was $40.00. I bought a pack of two water blasters for $9.99, two super hero big coloring books for $4.99 each, and I needed gift wrap $3.99, normally I would not buy gift wrap, but I was crunched for time. My total came to $26.35 (tax included) for gifts for two friends; I was under budget by $13.65, not too bad.
This one is kind of a dirty little secret. I think more people do it and do not admit it. So here I am laying it out there, judge if you want, you know you will probably do it someday too. If we receive a duplicate gift, sometimes I will give it as a new gift. Many might think of this as a faux pas, but I figure if the item is still in the new packaging, the boys haven’t dented it and I make sure I am not giving it back to the person who gave it to us; I think it is ok. Sometimes, I will return the duplicate gift and get a gift card to use for a later gift purchases.
Maybe you will try one of these tips or you might try them all, hopefully they will help you save some money during the birthday party seasons.
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